FULLY CLAIM YOUR SEXUALITY
Many of us are taught (implicitly or subliminally) that our sexuality does not belong to us. That we are not in charge of it. That we cannot freely make decisions regarding its expression.
Religions
often dictate how, when and with whom we may express sexually. Shame
is associated with stepping outside these rules, as is the possibility
of eternal punishment.
Our
parents might have set rules and expectations on how we may explore,
develop and express our sexuality. Shame, disapproval, and
withholding of love are often associated with stepping outside these
rules.
Our partner or spouse might control or attempt to control
how, when, and in what way we may express sexually. We
may feel limited to expressing in only those ways the partner is
comfortable with. Withdrawal of love and abandonment are
associated with stepping outside the partner's comfort zone.
Our culture may tend to dictate what is and is not acceptable sexually.
Leaving us with the message that we are an outcast if we dare
vary from the declared norms.
THE
RESULTS:
Many people repress or hide their true sexual selves from
fear of punishment, fear of abandonment, or fear of being shamed.
Some come to feel that there is something inherently wrong with their
natural sexual desires.
Others never uncover and explore their true sexual selves.
They never discover who they truly are.
Still others act out against the restrictions placed upon
them by religion, parents, partners and culture. This acting out
is often not a true expression of their sexual selves but just a
reaction to restriction.
It is no wonder that there is so much confusion, wounding and hurt around
sexuality.
WORKSHOP
BENEFITS
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The reclaiming of your natural sexuality, with
dignity.
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Opportunities to discuss sexuality in a shame free
environment.
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Unravelling sexual confusion leaving you with more clarity.
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Understanding how to respect the choices of others,
while being true to your own choices.
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Healing sexual wounding or traumas.
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An understanding of your partner’s sexual motivations,
preferences, priorities and why they respond the way they do.
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Creating a more natural flow in your sexuality.
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Learning how and when to say no, and when to say yes, in a
way that honours your integrity and is respectful to others.
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Understanding how to create unity between sexuality,
emotions and spirituality, which leads to sacred-sexuality and deep
intimacy.
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Understanding how your history affects your sexuality.
Ø Clearing attractions towards rebellious or destructive sexuality that does not honor what is really true for you.
Singles and couples welcome. All sexual gender preferences will be honoured.
Note: This workshop will not involve any hands-on
sexual activity.
Safety:
The structure of the workshop focuses on creating a safe setting where
people can explore issues with confidence ….. despite possible
fears.
Experience:
Kelly has facilitated workshops
across Canada since 1991 and has
trained with over 80 facilitators
in a wide range of therapeutic and healing arts.
Creativity:
Kelly uses techniques from a variety of sources, mixing and matching
them expertly and spontaneously to
fit arising situations.
Playfulness:
The seriousness of your work is lightened by a sense of fun that
infects the
participants.
Opportunity:
No one is
forced
or prodded into participating or being
vulnerable, yet the temptation to take healthy
risks will be surprisingly tempting.
Spirit:
Spiritual values of a higher power such as mutual respect, love,
wisdom and peace permeate the workshop. This connection to a deeper
sense of being aids with healing and personal development.
Empowerment:
You are encouraged to tap
into your own inner strengths within the workshop and to
take responsibility for
your ongoing personal development.
Support:
As
well as the profound support offered by Kelly himself, there is a
dedicated group of seasoned assistants who offer their
support in aiding your inner work. Local follow up resources will
be available.
Depth: The
combination of these elements encourages and allows you to work at a
depth which is often new, unexpected, and liberating.
Community: The diverse group of people who attend the workshops often stay connected through follow-up events such as pot-lucks and support groups. Click here for an article on The Value Of Community.